Session 13 Lesson

BEING IN COMMUNITY

Unveiling the Mysteries of Family, Community, and Beyond

Welcome to the realm of Gate 37, where the spirit of community thrives and the essence of family forms the bedrock of existence. This gate, deeply connected to the "Channel of Community," invites us to explore the intricate dance of human connection, weaving together diverse threads into a tapestry of belonging.

Yearning for Connection.

At the heart of Gate 37 lies a yearning for connection. It fosters a profound sensitivity to others, allowing us to navigate the delicate nuances of relationships with warmth, affection, and a deep understanding of reciprocity. Here, the lines blur between giving and receiving, as each member plays a vital role in sustaining the collective harmony.

The essence of exchange and reciprocity plays a subtle role within this gate. Within healthy community dynamics, individuals naturally contribute their unique talents and resources, creating a reciprocal flow of support and benefit. This exchange isn't driven by a pursuit of personal gain or the best possible deal, but rather by a sense of mutual care and responsibility for the tribe.

Therefore, negotiations and agreements within Gate 37 are more likely to focus on finding solutions that benefit the parties involved, fostering fairness and collaboration over one-sided victories. The emphasis lies on building trust and fostering long-term relationships rather than securing the most advantageous deal in a single transaction.

Ultimately, Gate 37 encourages a more holistic approach to exchange, where the well-being of the tribe and the fostering of genuine connections take precedence over individual benefits and short-term bargains.

Beyond the surface, Gate 37 reveals a deeper complexity. It represents the interplay of ego, responsibility, and adaptation, expressed through the unique qualities of each line. From the inherent respect of the first line to the adaptable bonds of the third, each facet reveals our longing for belonging and purpose.

However, this yearning transcends the confines of the familiar. Gate 37 whispers of a deeper quest, a longing for meaning and connection to something greater than ourselves. This journey for transcendence unfolds as we navigate the mystical waves of the 19 to 49 and the 37 to 40 gates, culminating in the profound questions of the 37.6 – our place in the cosmos and the nature of our being.

While Venus highlights the inner meaning of family and friendship, Mercury reminds us of the need for exploration and diversity. This delicate balance fosters a sense of security in familiarity while simultaneously enticing us with the allure of the unknown.

Embrace the full spectrum of human experience.

From the tender bonds of family to the profound mysteries of purpose, it is a journey of self-discovery, connection, and evolution. We navigate the intricate dance of life within the embrace of The Family, ever-evolving and transforming.

This exploration delves deeper, unveiling the shadow and gift associated with Gate 37. The shadow, known as "Weakness," highlights the societal imbalance between perceived strengths and weaknesses, particularly regarding the feminine and masculine archetypes. As humanity transitions, a new understanding of these forces emerges, challenging traditional power structures and societal norms.

However, true weakness lies not in service, but in the inability to trust and receive support. Repressing this shadow leads to inauthentic giving and emotional manipulation, while a reactive nature manifests as cruelty and a belief in inequality. Breaking free requires embracing the strength of the heart and transcending victimhood, ultimately leading to a transformation of societal dynamics.

The gift of Gate 37, "Equality," heralds a new dawn. It transcends mere societal constructs, recognizing the interconnectedness of all beings. This understanding, rooted in love, reshapes societal structures and paves the way for a more harmonious world.

The family unit becomes a potent force for transformation. Fueled by boundless love, it nurtures a new generation of awakened souls through genuine giving, where the more one gives, the more one receives. This true equality, born from the heart, fosters respect and unity while celebrating individual uniqueness.

As the gift blossoms, it dismantles barriers, weaving a cohesive social fabric. Communities unite, nurturing the Earth and uplifting humanity, transcending divisions and embracing a future illuminated by love where each soul is cherished and all are united in the tapestry of existence.

Finally, the Siddhi of Gate 37, "Tenderness," unveils a profound revelation. It transcends religious boundaries, revealing a universal truth embodied by the Christ figure: the union of divine masculine and feminine energies. This tenderness, symbolized by the sacrificial lamb, beckons us to surrender and embrace inner transformation.

As the Divine Feminine resurges, both men and women embrace their nurturing qualities, creating a new social paradigm. Family, once a unit, evolves into a global network, united by the aura of tenderness that permeates all human interactions. This collective awakening guides us towards a future where love, compassion, and truth reign supreme, and the Siddhi of Tenderness ushers in a world where the kingdom of heaven is not a distant dream, but a tangible reality.

Gate 37 beckons us on a multifaceted journey, inviting us to explore the depths of connection, transcend limitations, and embrace the full spectrum of our humanity. As we navigate this journey, we move towards a future where family extends beyond the familiar, and tenderness becomes the currency of the soul.

The Inspiration For This Lesson

“37th hexagram, we  come to channel of Community, this deeply social channel, a design of a part seeking the whole. This  stream is about sensitivity. It is about touch.

The 37th gate is the gate of friendship and family, the gate of affection, the gate of touching and hugging—at a price because, in the tribe, there is always a bargain.

Here, we have the possibility of who will or who will not provide what is needed. This is the energy, in the wave, the potential to recognize who will provide and who won't. That is why I said that there is always a price. The 37 needs the power of the ego and it is always looking for it. The possibility here is the sense of touch, and the mouth.

- Ra Uru Hu

Zoom Session

Join Abe & Janni as we discuss the bargains, deals, and agreements. 

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Contemplate:

Tenderness

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Transiting Gate 37, The Gate of Friendship, The Family

Bambaji Haven Hale

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Bonus

Hangouts

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PICK & CHOOSE

Activities

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The activities this week are to support you in life.

Pick and choose whichever activities interest you.

Create a mind map or diagram that explores your different "communities." This could include family, friends, work colleagues, online communities, etc.

For each community, identify the following:

  1. What role do you play within this community?
  2. How do you give and receive support within this community?
  3. What are some of the strengths and challenges of this community dynamic?

Reflect on the different ways you connect with these communities and how they fulfill your need for belonging.

  1. Research the concept of "weakness" and how traditional societal expectations might shape our understanding of it.

  2. Consider your own experiences with "weakness". Have you ever felt societal pressure to portray yourself as strong even when you didn't feel that way?

  3. How can we challenge traditional notions of strength and weakness and embrace a more balanced approach?

  4. Explore the concept of "equality" and how it goes beyond just societal constructs. How can we foster true equality in our relationships and communities?

Choose an art form (painting, writing, music, etc.) and create a piece that embodies the essence of Gate 37.

This piece can represent any aspect of Gate 37 that resonates with you, such as community, family, transcendence, or the interplay of shadow and gift.

Reflect on the creative process and how it helped you connect with the deeper meanings of Gate 37.

  1. Develop daily affirmations that support you to make healthy agreements.

  2. Repeat these affirmations regularly to integrate into your subconscious.

Download the Tapestry of Gate 37 Activity Book

  1. Commit to at least 5 minutes of actual writing time.

  2. Take time each day to go through the activity book on Gate 37. 

  3. Journal how you feel, what comes up for you, where are opportunities for upgrades.

  4. Is this an area to upgrade in your life

  5. Share and discuss insights and challenges with your core peeps.

  1. Download the Wealth Wheel Activity

  2. Individually assess 10 Key Resource areas using the Wealth Wheel.

  3. Identify areas where you lie to yourself and shift your mindset and actions to align with your truth.

  4. How has your Wealth Wheel changed since Session 2?

Bambaji shares about the Human Design System in this 22-minute video

She covers:

  1. the creation of the system

  2. how the system works

  3. what neutrinos are and their relevance to your bodygraph

  4. the connection between our DNA and Human Design 

  5. the Rave Mandala (a bit like a calendar)

  6. the crystals

  7. the creation of your bodygraph

Take a look and listen about our amazing system and how we are designed to live.

 

Bambaji shares about the Human Design Bodygraph in this 35-minute video

 

This worksheet by Byron Katie CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE!! It has mine. 

 

 

 

Reflect on the concept of "tenderness" and how it goes beyond physical affection.

Identify three ways you can express tenderness towards yourself and others (family, friends, community) in your daily life.

Consider different ways we can cultivate a culture of tenderness in our interactions, both online and offline.

  1. Imagine a future where the family unit has transformed due to the "Gift of Gate 37: Equality." Describe the characteristics of this new family structure.

  2. How does this new family unit contribute to the collective good and nurture future generations?

  3. Think about ways we can start fostering the values of this new family structure in our current communities.

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sharing wisdom

Session 12 Contributors

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Abe Nadimi

Executive Business Consultant

Bambaji Haven Hale

Human Design Analyst & Teacher

Cynthia Lengefeld

Conscious Coach

Jannica Lea

Human Design Holistic Analyst
OUTCOMES

Review for Session 13 : A Community of Love

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